TEN COMMANDMENTS OF SELF DEVELOPMENT

1. Speak to People. There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of greeting.

2. Smile at People. It takes 72 muscles to frown, but only 14 to smile!

3. Call People by Name. The sweetest music to anyone's ear is the sound of his or her own name.


4. Be Friendly and Helpful. If you would have friends, be friendly.

5. Be Cordial. Speak and act as if everything you do were a real pleasure.

6. Be Genuinely Interested in People. You can like everyone if you try.


7. Be Generous with Praise, Cautious with Criticism. Praise will win out when it comes to gaining friends.

8. Be Considerate of the Feelings of Others. It will be appreciated.

9. Be Thoughtful of the Opinions of Others. People love their opinions as they do their own children, calling them ugly won't get you anything but anger.


10. Be Alert to Give Service. What counts most in life is what we do for others!

CAN THOUGHTS LEAD TO DISTRUCTION?

MANY QUESTIONS ,AND DESIRES...MAY ARISE IN OUR MIND.
IF ONE WANTS TO ACTUALLY STOP DESIROUS LIFE,......
HE MUST FOLLOW REGULATIVE PRNCIPALS.
ONE KIND OF WAR CAUSES DISTRUCTION ;AND ANOTHER KIND OF WAR STOPS IT FOR SOME TIME. FRUITIVE ACTIVITIES ,CANNOT BRING ONE'S MISERIES TO AFINAL END.
.SOME VEDIC PRINCIPALS CAN HELP TO OVER COME THESE CONDITIONS.

LORD KRISHNA SAYS "IN METERIAL OR SINFUL LIFE WE ACT IN A WAY IN WHICH WE ARE FORCED TO COMMIT SINS AND SUFFER AS A RESULT;AND IF WANT TO STOP THIS SUFFERING AND VICTIMIZATION...........WE HAVE TO ADVANCE IN KNOWLEDGE".....

THE KNOWLEDGE OF OURSELF AND--- THE KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THE SUPREME SELF---
FOR THAT ONE SHOULD ELEVATE HIM SELF TO THE PLATFORM OF KNOWLEDGE AS PRESCRIBED IN VEDAS.

FOR THIS ....THE FIRST STEP IS 'THAPASYA' : VOLUNTARY ACCEPTANCE OF A MISERABLE CONDITIONS.......WITHOUT WHICH WE CANNOT ADVANCE IN SPIRITUAL LIFE OR KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THE SELF .....THE SELF CONCIOUSNESS

THE SECOND ONE IS AUSTERITY.....AND THE FIRST PRINCIPAL OF THIS IS 'BRAHMACHARYA'(RESTRICTED SEXUAL LIFE)....THE FIRST STEP TOWARDS A PROGRESSIVE LIFE .
IN THE BEGINING STAGES OF LIFE ONE SHOULD STRICTLY FOLLOW THE REGULATIONS OF BRAHMACHARYA..


THESE TYPES OF MANY PRESCRIBEDSTEPS CHARACTERIZES ONES LIFE.
THESE STAGES ONE GAINS TRAINING TO OVER COME 'THOUGHTS' and 'DESIRES'.
THE ABILITY TO OVER COME THESE.... HELPS TO LEAD A LIFE OF SERINITY.
THE COURAGE TO OVERRULE THOUGHTS IS A MUST;
BECAUSE THOUGHTS CAN LEAD TO A TOTAL DISTRUCTION-----THE CHAIN IS LIKE THIS


THOUGHTS----->causes ATTATCHEMENT-------->arises DESIRE----->OBSTRUCTED DESIRE-------->ANGER----->causes DELUSION------>leads to LOSE OF MEMMORY-------->lose of INTELLECT-------->finally leadding TO DISTRUCTION( perish).

BRAHMACHARYA AND THAPASYS .....AND MANY OTHER STEPS TO FOLLOW ...GIVES THE COURAGE TO OVER COME ALL THESE---
THIS IS THE FIRST LESSON OF SELF CONTROL.....and FIRST STEP TO STOP DISRUCTION