Showing posts with label HOW TO SUCCEED. Show all posts
Showing posts with label HOW TO SUCCEED. Show all posts

Saturday, July 25, 2009

ANCIENT INDIAN MANAGEMENT ..MODERN WORLD


In our home/ office there should be a good seat for the guests,

good water for the guests, good words should always be used.

If these are available in an office / home that place is the heaven.

he guests understands about the people residing and working here first by

watching these arrangements.

Friday, July 24, 2009

TEN COMMANDMENTS OF SELF DEVELOPMENT





1. Speak to People. There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of greeting.

2. Smile at People. It takes 72 muscles to frown, but only 14 to smile!

3. Call People by Name. The sweetest music to anyone's ear is the sound of his or her own name.


4. Be Friendly and Helpful. If you would have friends, be friendly.

5. Be Cordial. Speak and act as if everything you do were a real pleasure.

6. Be Genuinely Interested in People. You can like everyone if you try.


7. Be Generous with Praise, Cautious with Criticism. Praise will win out when it comes to gaining friends.

8. Be Considerate of the Feelings of Others. It will be appreciated.

9. Be Thoughtful of the Opinions of Others. People love their opinions as they do their own children, calling them ugly won't get you anything but anger.


10. Be Alert to Give Service. What counts most in life is what we do for others!

Thursday, July 23, 2009

FIRE AND WOOD


When the fire woods are kept separately while burning, only the smoke will come.

But when they are kept together during burning flames will come.

Like this when the relatives stay together the good things will take place and when they are separated only pain remains.

Those who ‘demonstrate’ their muscle power towards great scholars, cows, women and their relatives get themselves degraded

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

CAN THOUGHTS LEAD TO DISTRUCTION?


MANY QUESTIONS ,AND DESIRES...MAY ARISE IN OUR MIND.
IF ONE WANTS TO ACTUALLY STOP DESIROUS LIFE,......
HE MUST FOLLOW REGULATIVE PRNCIPALS.
ONE KIND OF WAR CAUSES DISTRUCTION ;AND ANOTHER KIND OF WAR STOPS IT FOR SOME TIME. FRUITIVE ACTIVITIES ,CANNOT BRING ONE'S MISERIES TO AFINAL END.

.SOME VEDIC PRINCIPALS CAN HELP TO OVER COME THESE CONDITIONS.

LORD KRISHNA SAYS "IN METERIAL OR SINFUL LIFE WE ACT IN A WAY IN WHICH WE ARE FORCED TO COMMIT SINS AND SUFFER AS A RESULT;AND IF WANT TO STOP THIS SUFFERING AND VICTIMIZATION...........WE HAVE TO ADVANCE IN KNOWLEDGE".....

THE KNOWLEDGE OF OURSELF AND--- THE KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THE SUPREME SELF---
FOR THAT ONE SHOULD ELEVATE HIM SELF TO THE PLATFORM OF KNOWLEDGE AS PRESCRIBED IN VEDAS.

FOR THIS ....THE FIRST STEP IS 'THAPASYA' : VOLUNTARY ACCEPTANCE OF A MISERABLE CONDITIONS.......WITHOUT WHICH WE CANNOT ADVANCE IN SPIRITUAL LIFE OR KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THE SELF .....THE SELF CONCIOUSNESS

THE SECOND ONE IS AUSTERITY.....AND THE FIRST PRINCIPAL OF THIS IS 'BRAHMACHARYA'(RESTRICTED SEXUAL LIFE)....THE FIRST STEP TOWARDS A PROGRESSIVE LIFE .
IN THE BEGINING STAGES OF LIFE ONE SHOULD STRICTLY FOLLOW THE REGULATIONS OF BRAHMACHARYA..


THESE TYPES OF MANY PRESCRIBEDSTEPS CHARACTERIZES ONES LIFE.
THESE STAGES ONE GAINS TRAINING TO OVER COME 'THOUGHTS' and 'DESIRES'.
THE ABILITY TO OVER COME THESE.... HELPS TO LEAD A LIFE OF SERINITY.
THE COURAGE TO OVERRULE THOUGHTS IS A MUST;
BECAUSE THOUGHTS CAN LEAD TO A TOTAL DISTRUCTION-----THE CHAIN IS LIKE THIS


THOUGHTS----->causes ATTATCHEMENT-------->arises DESIRE----->OBSTRUCTED DESIRE-------->ANGER----->causes DELUSION------>leads to LOSE OF MEMMORY-------->lose of INTELLECT-------->finally leadding TO DISTRUCTION( perish).

BRAHMACHARYA AND THAPASYS .....AND MANY OTHER STEPS TO FOLLOW ...GIVES THE COURAGE TO OVER COME ALL THESE---
THIS IS THE FIRST LESSON OF SELF CONTROL.....and FIRST STEP TO STOP DISRUCTION

Monday, July 13, 2009

BELIEVE YOUR SELF ......BE YOUR SELF



YOU ALWYS REMEMBER THESE........

@.Your presence, is a present to the world

*.You're unique and one of a kind

*.Your life can be, what you want it to be


@.Count your blessings, not your troubles

*.Within you, are so many answers

*.Understand, have courage, be strong

@.Don't put limits on yourself

*.So many dreams, are waiting to be realized

*.Decisions are too important, to
leave to chance

*. Reach for your peak, your goal and your prize

@.Nothing wastes more energy, than worrying

@.The longer one carries a problem, the heavier it gets

*.Don't take things too seriously

*. Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets

*. Remember, that friendship is a wise investment

Life's treasures, are people... together

Realize, that it's never too late

@.Do ordinary things, in a extraordinary way

*.Have health, hope and happiness

*.Take the time, to wish upon a star

@.And don't ever forget For even a day

How very special you are

Friday, July 10, 2009

WIN YOUR MIND.... WIN THE WORLD


HOW TO OVERCOME ...THESE ARE THE WAYS......

UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU SEE


1)LIFE IS A CHALLENGE ...FACE IT .

2) LIFE IS A DANCE.........DONOT SIT IT OUT.

3) EVERY INVENTIONS WAS ONCE CONSIDERED IMPOSSIBLE .

4) DO NOT LET ANY ONE TAME YOUR AMBITIONS .

5) INSURE- YOUR SUCCESS BY DOING COMMON THINGS ,UNCOMMONLY WELL.

(6) VIEW---COMPLAINTS AS AN OPPORTUNITY..... TO SHOW ,.HOW QUICKLY AND EXPERTLY YOU RESPOND TO THE PROBLEMS.

7) NEVER-- FORGET THE POWER AND ELEGANCE OF SIMPLICITY.





8) REMEMBER THIS “YOU NEVER LOSE ,WHEN YOU SACRIFICE FOR THINGS …BIGGER THAN YOUR SELF”.

(9) BE THE PERSON ---WHO RETUNS BORROWED ITEMS IN A BETTER SHAPE. LOOK FOR WAYSTO HELP OTHER SUCCED.

10) CREATIVITY plus DESCIPLINE plus INTEGRITY—IS AN UNBEATABLE COMBINATION.

(11) DONOT ASSUME A DOOR IS CLOSED,BECAUSE IT DOESNOT OPEN WITH A TOUCH.--------- KICK IT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

12)KNOWLEDGE PUT IN TO ACTION IS WISDOM.

(13) ACTIONS GIVES MORE SATISFACTION---THAN COMPLAINING.

14) ALL YOUR PLANINGS AND DREAMING ARE USELESS....;"UNLESS YOU TAKE ACTION.

(15)WHEN YOU WHANT TO GIVE YOU A GOOD GIFT......DO SOMETHING NICE FOR SOME ONE ELSE.

16)NEVER LET---- FLOWERS and FRIENDSHIPS DIE FOR LACK OF ATTENTION.





(17) SUBSTITUTE--- “I CAN’T” with “I ‘LL TRY”..WHATCH...... WHAT HAPPENS.

18) CHOOSE QUALITY -OVER QUANTITY.

19) ONCE YOU HAVE DECIDED A COURSE OF ACTION CARRY IT ,WITH SPEED,ENTHUSIASM,AND COMMITED PERFECTION.

20)ONCE YOU HAVE PROMISED TO DO SOMETHING....NEVER COMPLAIN ABOUT THE DIFFICULTY IN DOING IT.

21) SCALING HIGHTS OF SUUCCESS IS ALWAYS FOLLOWED BY THE CHALLENGE OF SURVIVING THE DESCENT.

(22) DON’T CONFUSE SELF WORTH ........ WITH NET WORTH.

23) EVEN WHEN THERE IS NO ONE AROUND ...THERE IS ALWYS SOME ONE LOKING.

24) DONOT WORRY IF YOU ARE SOME TIMES MOVING SLOWLY..BUT DO WORRY IF YOU ARE STANDING STILL.




(25)TO BE A SUCCESS---YOU NEED TO BE FIRST,BEST,or DIFFERENT.

(26) BY DOING YOUR BEST YOU MIGHT NOT WIN,BUT YOU NEVER FAIL.

(27) BY BECOMING MORE GIVING,YOU WILL BECOME ;HAPPIER .

(28) YOUR SMILE IS AGIFT ;AND AN INVESTMENT KEEP SMILING
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